4 Steps for Choosing Your First Vibrator
When it comes to self-pleasuring, the toys and sex gear you use can make or break your experience. For people with vulvas, the right vibrator can help you achieve different types of orgasms and teach you how to be comfortable with the way your…
Our G-spot Live Demo Class
In 99.9% of our sex classes we don't do x-rated live demos. There are a few reasons for this. First of all, many of the sexual techniques we teach take repeated practice to master. I often say mastering the g-spot, for example, isn't…
Everything you Need to Know About Butt Plugs
This three part video series is a quick and thorough butt plug primer. In it I cover:
What is a butt plug
Types of butt plugs
How to select the right butt plug for you
Why do butt plugs feel good?
How are butt plugs be used for…
Dollification and Relaxed Clitoral Orgasms
The first time I had an orgasm being relaxed, calm, and breathing deeply it was an amazing experience. I hadn’t realized before that during all of my previous orgasms my pelvic floor and entire body was clenched, I was white knuckled, grinding my teeth, and holding my breath. All of those things going in in different parts of my body detracted from what my genitals were feeling.
Electrify Your Orgasms: TENS Units for Beginners
Curious about using electricity to get off? Afraid to try because you don’t want to fry your naughty bits? Have no fear! While electrosex devices are sometimes used for BDSM pain play, they can also be an exciting, painless, and surprisingly safe way to bring yourself to mindblowing orgasm.
And no, it won't hurt. Often portrayed as complicated, tortuous devices, electrosex toys are actually quite simple to operate and offer an infinite palette of sensations. Their adjustability makes them versatile enough to use for pain play or gentle, erotic titillation.
Flower Power: Jopen Lust L5 Review
Let me tell you, this cute little flower unleashes some serious power! <-- it also inspires me to rhyme like a pro, ha! Also, in this video I tell you a little bit about my show. Yes, SHOW! Like on TV, this fall!
Review: The Shibari Wand Helped me Find the Secret to the Universe . . . in my Pants
The vibrations of the Rechargeable Shibari Wand really make this sex toy work for me. I’m not sure of the exact specs or the science behind the mechanisms, but the Shibari Wand feels as if it’s vibrating at a different frequency than the Hitachi.
OhMiBod Lovelife Adventure Review or “OhMiBod, Becky! Look at her Vibrator!”
I really, really, REALLY like the OhMiBod Adventure. Granted, it took a bit for me to get used to but once I did-- DAMN! It’s powerful enough for my iron clit of steel, it can be a few toys at once depending on if I insert it, how I insert it, which way I spin it, etc. It also does amazing things to my perineal sponge my other toys only dream of. We have quite the fling going at this point. We simply can’t get enough of each other!
Nick Hawk GIGOLO Lucky 7 Slender Bullet Review
Dear Basic Silver Bullet,
I met you years ago. How long has it been? Five? Six years? In all that time you’ve never let me down. Your vibrations are intense and when you are pressed up against me, you take to me the edge each and every time.
How to Really Tell if a Woman is Having an Orgasm
I came across this article today from Dan & Jennifer on how to tell if a woman is faking orgasm.
I hit full WTF mode at #6: “Her Clitoris Isn’t Sensitive Afterwards”
"This only lasts a few seconds, so make sure to ‘test’ her right after her orgasm. Touch her clitoris lightly after she’s climaxed and watch her reaction. If she’s totally cool with it, she faked. If she jerks back involuntarily and almost violently, her orgasm was real. If you were giving her oral sex, just keep licking for a few seconds longer than you need to and see what happens."
Why Men Don’t Always Want Sex
This is a touchy subject, but I don’t feel like having sex all the time anymore. Surprise! I’m getting older. Soon I will be 44 years of age. I am into alternate sexual practices; I’m in an open relationship, BDSM, and have multiple sexual partners. I should always be in the mood, right? Wrong!
Rechargeable Black Label Jack Rabbit Review: I’m in Vibrator Heaven!
I hit the jackpot! I won the orgasm lottery!
I have not been able to stop masturbating since California Exotics sent me the just released 30th Anniversary Black Label Rechargeable Jack Rabbit to review. It’s been about a month. I’m weak. Send food. And more lube!
Butterfly Kiss G-spot Vibrator Sex Toy Giveaway!
Woo-hoo! It’s time for another sex toy contest! The fine folks at California Exotics have graciously sponsored this giveaway. They sent me a blue Butterfly Kiss G-spot Vibrator to give to a lucky winner!
The reviewers over at…
5 Reasons Why Female Condoms Rock My World
Female condoms feel AMAZING! As someone with a vagina I can personally say using female condoms feels a bit more like sex without a condom. The male lovers I have used them with say they feel especially out of this world to a penis. Many men say it’s close to the sensation of bare-backing. Female condoms feel so natural because they warm up to the temperature of the wearers body. As an added bonus, when used for man/woman sex, the clitoris can be stimulated by the condoms outer ring and the tip of the penis stimulated by the inner ring.
Sex Toy Review: Body & Soul Remote 1
This month the fine folks at California Exotics sent me a wireless remote controlled egg called Body & Soul Remote 1 to review.
First of all, I love remote controlled sex toys for couples play. The first time I got one was as a…
The Low-Down on Ben Wa Balls + Eclipse Kegel Exerciser Review
Ben Wa balls, also known as Kegel exercisers, are all the rage. We’ve known for over 1,500 years using them leads to improved vaginal health, better sex and stronger orgasms. You’d think that would be enough to sell anyone. But it…
Jimmyjane Form 2 Review: I’m in Love!
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Very rarely do I fall in love with a vibrator. I’m picky, tough to arouse and since I’ve sampled some of the best toys out there, I have very high standards. …
Ken & Sunny Milk a Prostate!
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In the video above Ken and I discuss some of the techniques from these prostate milking instructional videos we tried. They were a great success! We encountered…
The Journey of Self Love – My Masturbation Story
May is International Masturbation Month! This article was written by Sunny Megatron for and originally appearing in Lidia-Anain's Sex Love Joy. During the entire month of May 2012, Sex Love Joy will feature a collection of masturbation…
How to Give Prostate Massage: Instructional Videos
Below are a few instructional videos on prostate massage we found helpful. In the first, Jennah Adams shows you how to milk the prostate with a gloved finger. In the second Brianna Beach demos with an Aneros Prostate Massager. The bottom video is the very first video I ever watched about prostate massage. I really like this last video because it shows the actual massage in more detail. Also, they are the cutest couple ever!
Hitachi Magic Wand vs. Wahl Massager + Vibrator Giveaway!
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Watch my video to find out which massager I like better and why. And don’t forget to enter to win a Wahl Electric Massager of your very own! Use the widget down…