In the video above Ken and I discuss some of the techniques from these prostate milking instructional videos we tried. They were a great success! We encountered some things we didn’t expect (most of them good!) and prostate massage is something we’ve since incorporated on a regular basis in our lovemaking.
Recapping some of the points we covered in our video:
- If you are preparing to do this with a partner, remember to set aside a good amount of time. The milking should progress slowly. Ours lasted around 40 minutes.
- For the person doing the milking— you are going to be in the same position for quite a while. You may start to cramp up, especially if you are using your finger. I found the best position for me to have Ken scoot down to the end of the bed with his butt near the edge. I then sat down/knelt in the floor.
- It’s also important to remember, although the entire prostate is walnut sized, the exposed portion you are looking for feels more the size of a kidney bean. As the man becomes more aroused it will get larger, however, in a state of semi-arousal it may be hard to find in some men.
- Lastly, we find it’s not necessary to go through any extensive preparation routine or flush yourself out with an enema before hand. Simply make sure there isn’t a bowel movement in the rectum and that you’ve recently washed as a courtesy to both you and your partner. We also recommend the use of surgical style gloves.
Anal play is something many are curious about but are often apprehensive to try. Some feel it is feminizing or has bearing on the receiver’s sexual orientation. Those who are Doms or Tops may also believe being penetrated is a submissive act.
Prostate play is good for ones health and feels wonderful! Sexual orientation is determined by who you love, not what sexual acts you enjoy. Acts of dominance or submission are largely marked by how one approaches and carries themselves during a sexual scene, not the specifics of the acts performed during that scene.
Don’t get hung up on labels or what society says you should or should not like. Experiment and enjoy your body, it can do some wonderful things!
Below are more resources to help you learn more about prostate play (sometimes referred to as the P-spot). Some of these links are NSFW.