Taboo BDSM Play with Mollena Williams-Haas - American Sex Podcast Ep 170

Why are dark, disgusting fantasies that are in direct opposition to our moral beliefs some of our biggest turn-ons? How can what’s ‘so wrong’ be ‘so RIGHT’? Mollena Lee Williams-Haas tells us what’s behind this on episode 170 of American Sex Podcast. If your porn search history is twisted, you’re not alone. Taboo kinks are quite normal. We touch on: why the BDSM community can surprisingly be the most judgmental, how to handle it when people yuck your yum, the right and wrong reasons to explore taboo, how some examine oppressive systems like sexism and racism through taboo play, and why the WHY and intention behind it all is the key to everything. Mollena also breaks down a fear many of us wrestle with–will thinking about extreme fantasies push us to act out dangerous things or lead to the erosion of our personal ethics in real life? How can we determine if others will eventually cross that line? Even though the subject matter is dark, this conversation is lighthearted and hilarious too. Laugh your way to “strange boner town” with us!

Mollena Williams Haas Bio

This “Delicate, Trembling Flower of Submission” © is an NYC born and raised writer, actress, BDSM Educator, Storyteller, sobriety fiend since March 2007, and an Award-Winning Executive Pervert. Owned and collared by renowned contemporary composer Georg Friedrich Haas since 2013 and his wife since 2015, she serves as his beloved slave, submissive, wife, servant and Muse. February 2016 saw a groundbreaking piece about their relationship featured in the New York Times.

Her opinion and viewpoints on issues of kink, Leather and BDSM are frequently sought after by news and information sources like The New York Times, The Huffington Post, Newsweek, Essence, Ebony, etc. She is a frequent guest expert on Dan Savage’s “Savage Lovecast,” Tristan Taormino’s “Sex Out Loud” three times, and Margaret Cho’s “Monsters of Talk” podcast.

Exploring kink since 1993, active in BDSM and the Leather Community since 1996, and teaching since 1998, she speaks internationally on those topics. She’s even spoken about Kink at Harvard, Yale, Princeton.

Molena is also a leather titleholder– International Ms Leather 2010 and Ms. San Francisco Leather 2009. She’s the co-author of the “Toybag Guide: Taboo Play.” and “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities”. Both collaborations with fellow educator Lee Harrington.

A professional stage performer since the age of 5, Mollena’s credits include singing on the soundtrack for the movie The Wiz and co-starring with Danny Bonaduce in the underground cult-classic America’s Deadliest Home Video. Her short film, IMPACT, won the “Cinekink’s Best Experimental Film Award. Mollena’s latest performance piece is Hyena, a collaboration with her husband. They are also both the subject of an upcoming documentary called The Artist and The Pervert (trailer below). Mollena also appeared on Sex with Sunny Megatron on Showtime in a segment on race play.

Mollena’s Full Bio: http://www.mollena.com/about/

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Episode 170 Links

All That and Mo, Podcast hosted by Mollena Lee Williams Haas https://allthatandmo.com/
Mollena Lee Williams Haas Website http://www.mollena.com/
Mollena Lee Williams Haas Facebook https://www.facebook.com/mollena
Mollena Lee Williams Haas Instagram https://www.instagram.com/mollena_lee_williams_haas/
Mollena Lee Williams Haas Twitter https://twitter.com/mollena
Mollena Lee Williams Haas Patreon https://www.patreon.com/MollenaLeeWilliamsHaas
Mollena on RISK! Episode 442 “Slave” https://soundcloud.com/riskshow/slave-by-mollena-williams-from-episode-442-slave
Hyena Teaser Trailer https://youtu.be/UrAJji7qdwk
The Artist and the Pervert Trailer https://youtu.be/ko_6bGeADGU
The Artist and the Pervert Documentary on Amazon https://www.amazon.com/Artist-Pervert-Georg-Friedrich-Haas/dp/B08NC5C1PK
KPACT The Psychological Appeal of BDSM 10/15/2021 https://www.kpact.xyz/product/the-psychological-appeal-of-bdsm/
Consent Dojo w/Midori & Sunny Megatron (Free recorded replay available until mid/late October) https://shibaristudy.com/authors/midori
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