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Top 10 CalExotics Fetish Toys of 2013

Sunny Megatron Ball Gag Recently I was a guest on the SiriusXM radio show, On Air with Club CalExotics hosted by Sheena Metal. Three words: SO MUCH FUN!

Sheena and I talked about exploring kink and took questions from callers.  We finished up the episode with my list of Top 10 Fetish Toys of 2013.  These are must-have, classic items everyone should have in their naughty toolbox.

Whether you missed the episode or listened to the entire thing on the edge of your seat, this is a list you don’t want to miss.  Below you’ll find instructional videos for most of the BDSM toys on the list.  You may just have to bookmark this one!

In no particular order, here are my Top 10 CalExotics Fetish Items of 2013. . .


1. First Time Fetish™ Nipple Teasers 

These are one of my favorite items and a true must have.  They aren’t only great for nipples, but can be used on labia and scrotum too.  What really makes these versatile is their adjustability.  They can be set to clamp down hard or very lightly depending on your preference.  Here is part 1 of my 3 part video series on these wonderful nipple clamps:


2. First Time Fetish™ Riding Crop

Riding crops are a staple in kinky play.  You can use them to swat butts, nipples, genitals, or use them for the fine art of Bastinado.  Intrigued?  Here’s the video:


3. Plushy Gear™ – Eye Mask

Eye masks are used for sensory deprivation and often in conjunction with sensation play.  This is a great starting point for folks who want to spice things up a bit.  The Plushy Gear Mask is one of the softest and most comfortable I’ve come across.


4. Plushy Gear™ – Wrist Cuffs

I use these cuffs all the time.  They are unbelievably comfortable (and vegan), easy to put on and remove, and they are sturdy enough for hardcore bondage.  They are perfect for those looking to get started in bondage but also perfectly suitable for experienced pros.  Bondage can spice things up in the bedroom for many reasons.  One of my favorites is because it can throw off your sense of proprioception.

I explain in my 3 part wrist cuff series.  Here’s part 1:


5. Posh® Silicone Ice Massager Wave™

I love this toy because it allows you to bring ice cubes into the bedroom without all of the messy, drippy melting.  Also, this makes the ice vibrate! I’ve never been able to make anything from my freezer do that.  Best yet? It’s inexpensive. WIN. Pair this up with the Plushy Gear Eye Mask and/or Wrist Cuffs for a really fun evening.


For the other 5 items continue reading this article on Club CalExotics:  http://www.clubcalexotics.com/profiles/blogs/top-10-fetish-toys-of-2013

If you are a SiriusXM subscriber, you can catch a recording of the show I was on here: http://www.siriusxm.com/vividradio  Just look for the 12/26 episode.