Ruby Ryder tells us how she discovered her joy for pegging at the age of 50 and became the go-to expert. She addresses pegging apprehension that stems from the societal notion that it’s a threat to masculinity. We learn how to talk to your partner about your interest in pegging; how to have pegging induced multiple and full body orgasms; the difference between prostate, anal, and penile orgasms; plus the striking similarities between the g-spot and the p-spot. Ruby also covers concerns for givers including building stamina with exercises designed for better thrusting in the bedroom. We go over the best toys and harnesses, the myth of the strapless strap-on, why orgasms for givers aren’t always desirable, how to determine the sensitivity of your prostate and why it’s important, pegging for people that don’t have prostates, and more. Whether that scene in Deadpool simply piqued your interest or if you’re an old pro looking for new inspiration, this episode has it all!
Guest Bio
Ruby Ryder of PeggingParadise.com and Pegging101.com is a podcaster, blogger, sex educator and a published writer of erotic fiction. She has moderated panels at CatalystCon East and West, been a speaker on the main stage at the BIL conference, and presented at DomCon LA. Ruby’s erotica is in Violet Blue’s ‘Best Women’s Erotica 2014.’ She has also appeared in an episode of Comedy Central’s ‘Not Safe with Nikki Glaser’.
Ruby spends her time spreading the word about the singular joys of pegging, teaching, writing pegging erotica and doing everything she can to encourage a sex-positive society in which we can all be exactly who we are.
She resides in Southern California near the beach, and loves watching the surfers change out of their wet suits.
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