Black People Kink Podcast Dominus baby jThe folks from Black People Kink Podcast, Dominus Blue & jaemina, drop tons of gems in this week’s episode. They open up about their 24/7 total power exchange Dominant/submissive BDSM relationship and explain how the dynamic isn’t so different from vanilla couples. We talk monogamy vs. polyamory; dropping the racial terms black & white for melanated & demelanated; why jaemina views her submission as a feminist act; how to be an effective, nurturing, emotionally intelligent dominant; why respectability politics in marginalized communities hampers sexual freedom; inclusivity in kink; healing invisible scars with yoga & more. Sunny gives a nod to the Sex Talk with My Mom podcast as she invites her daughter to guest co-host the intro. The pair concoct an avocado blowbang extravaganza and have some comfortable uncomfortable conversations. You can listen to the continued avocado conversation here:

Guest Bio 

Black People Kink (BPK) was founded by lifestyle Dominant, Dominus Blue, and his submissive queen baby j.  BPK is dedicated to exploring, celebrating, embracing, and encouraging the free expression of sexuality for all, and creating a welcoming place for people of color in the world of BDSM/kink lifestyle. We endeavor to provide honest and enlightening perspectives on issues of race, sex and lifestyle choices, while maintaining an environment that is meant to be open and welcoming for everyone.

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