In the kink world a mindf*ck involves ethically using mental manipulation to bend a bottom’s reality. Whether it’s the subtle twisting of details to enhance a sensory experience or an elaborate rouse akin to an erotic practical joke, minf*cks can greatly enhance kink & role play. On ep 146 Sir Ezra deconstructs this psychological tool. Learn why mindf*cking gets a bad wrap, what steps to follow when executing a mindf*ck, and hear about real-world examples used in kink scenes. We also discuss how to remain ethical when topping, plus how during vetting, negotiation, and play you can spot red flags in partners using these techniques for malicious manipulation and harmful deceit.

Sir Ezra Bio

Ezra identifies as a Polyamorous Heterosexual Dominant Sexual Sadist. He specializes in edge play, including fire play, knife play, electroplay, and whips. He enjoys doing heavy impact scenes and receiving service from his collared property Queen Ana Algos and others. Ezra is the founder of the Leather/BDSM household, The House Of Algos.  He co-founded the body/gender positive party “The ChamPAIN Room” and the edge play party “Club Inferno”.  He is the Director of Education at Sanctuary LAX and Coach at House of Algos Coaching.

His teaching experience includes:

  • Negotiation class at DomCon 2018 and Threshold 2018
  • Single Tail Whip class at Sanctuary LAX, and DomCon LA 2019
  • Mindfuck class and taster at Sanctuary LAX 2019 
  • Fireplay at “Club Edge” party in 2019
  • And Online with Sanctuary LAX’s “the Course”: Negotiation, Mindfucking, Fireplay, Finding your first play partner in 2020
  • His work experience includes:
  • Dungeon Monitor at Sanctuary Parties since 2018-19
  • Dungeon Monitor at Torture garden Los Angeles 2019
  • Demo booth at LA Pride 2019
  • His Stage Performances include:
  • Torture garden Los Angeles 2019
  • ChamPAIN Room 
  • LA Pride 2019 

 

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