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How to Handle Gagging During a Blow Job

afraid of gagging on cockIf you’ve been on the giving end of a blow job, you’ve likely encountered the dreaded gag reflex.  It can sneak up on you when you least expect it.

There you are bobbing away.  You aren’t doing anything fancy, not even trying to deep throat and then it pops up out of nowhere:  “Guuhhhaaaa! Guuaahhhhh!”  Your eyes water, your abdominal muscles tighten, and your face flushes red with embarrassment.  You hope and pray you don’t vomit all over the cock in front of you.

Sex advice websites offer countless articles trying to teach us how to give a blow job without gagging.  Gagging, after all, is one of the worst things that can happen while performing fellatio, right?

Have you ever considered that gagging while sucking dick can sometimes be a good thing?

If you otherwise enjoy giving head but are mortified when you gag simply because you believe it grosses out your partner, think again.  There is a good chance your partner may think it’s hot.  No joke.

Blow Job Workshops ChicagoA little gagging produces desirable physical effects like increased saliva and pleasant feeling on the head of the cock.  It also has its mental benefits.  It’s a bit of an ego boost to know that someone is so hungry for your cock they are gobbling it up faster than they can handle. Or that your penis is so large it’s too much for even the most skilled fellator.  Many receivers also find the teary eyed, smeared mascara look irresistibly sexy.

That ego boost isn’t just reserved for receivers who are men, either.  I’m a just as much a receiver when I’m wearing my strap-on. I love being on the receiving end of a good cock sucking.  While I can’t actually feel the physical sensations when a cute boy or girl is sucking my cock, I certainly do find the gagging and cock worship a huge turn-on.

In the video below Ken and I talk about gagging from both a giver and receivers point of view.  If you think gagging during oral is always cause for embarrassment, consider the view from the person on the other side of the blow job.  You might just be the hottest thing ever choking on that huge cock!

 

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We’d love to hear some of your experiences. Do you think gagging is hot?  Not? Let us know in the comments!

 

* I want to put a disclaimer in here about consent.  Gagging on cock is hot if you, as the giver, WANT to gag on cock.  Being coerced or forced to do something that makes you feel uncomfortable is never enjoyable or acceptable.  
 
**Also, yes—gagging can be taken to the next level as in Roman Showers, Rainbow Play or Emetophilia—but that’s an entirely different blog post!  

 
 
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  1. Liana
    Liana says:

    I know I’m a little late to the party, but I just found your blog a few days ago. I recently gained a new partner and found out his absolute favorite thing in the world is having his dick gagged on. This was relieving for me because as much as I love giving a great blow job, I have a somewhat tiny mouth and gag VERY frequently.

    From our very first encounter I have never once even felt the need to stop going down when I gagged and have even done all I can to force myself to. He loves it when I get to the point of tears streaming down my face. Even better, he is willing to do something most partners have been very uncomfortable with. I have always wanted to learn to deep throat and he has been very patient with helping me practice as well as encouraging me when I feel like I’ll never be able to do it. It must not be very satisfying for him since he has to go very slow and I can only take a few thrusts before I feel like I’m going to puke, so I am very grateful.

    I showed him this article and he was relieved because little did I know he was actually quite self conscious about this fetish. Now he doesn’t feel so much like a man who favored degrading his partner as many other partners have made him feel when talking about his likes.

    Thanks you guys for your openness!

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