On episode 138 of American Sex Podcast Marla Renee Stewart teaches us the art of teasing and pleasing. Learn about seduction learning styles, which are kind of like love languages for flirting, and how to use them to wow your partners. We talk about why determining consent style is key when flirting with new partners, how to flirt using technology during this time of social distancing, how folks that have trouble reading nonverbal cues can flirt effectively, why it’s important to plant sex seeds, plus what foreplay is and isn’t. We also explore how cultural and generational differences affect our flirting styles plus Marla teaches some advanced flirting and seduction skills.
Marla Renee Stewart Bio
Marla Renee Stewart, MA is a sexologist and a sex coach who runs her own sexuality education company, Velvet Lips and is also a Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference. She has studied human sexuality for more than 19 years and has given over 400 workshops all over the world. She also has been featured on a variety of media outlets, including Netflix’s Trigger Warning with Killer Mike and Love & HipHop Atlanta. She co-wrote her first book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay with Dr. Jessica O’Reilly, which debuted in April 2020.
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