
I’m giving away a 50 Shades of Grey gift package! Are you dying to read the book that has everyone talking? It seems everyone has an opinion about it— now you can judge for yourself! This gift package is valued at over $65 and includes E.L. James’ book 50 Shades of Grey, a pair of [...]
Upon meeting a prospective partner in a coffee shop or at the corner bar, they often become “Coffee Shop Hottie” or “Corner Bar Dude” in casual conversation amongst friends. When I first met the love of my life, my best friend and I secretly referred to him as “The Sex Clown.” We met on Fetlife. I [...]
There are a few things you may want to ask yourself before you buy your very first sex toy. For starters, you need to determine if you prefer vaginal penetration or clitoral stimulation. Being your first toy, what if you aren’t exactly sure? The toy I most often recommend to first time sex toy buyers [...]
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When I was about 7 years old I accidentally heard my mother having sex. I stayed quiet as not to be discovered but had to keep listening out of sheer curiosity. At one point I heard her say in a whispery, trying-too-hard, bedroom voice “put it . . . between my . . . breaasssttts!”
Posted on 16 May 2012
May is National Masturbation Month! This article was written for and originally appeared in Lidia-Anain’s Sex Love Joy. During the entire month of May, Sex Love Joy will feature a collection of masturbation stories by various authors. Check back periodically for new writing. I’ve always masturbated A LOT. I was about 5 years [...] Continue Reading
Posted on 09 May 2012
I just learned Detroit’s Local 4 News planted someone at a local BDSM Dungeon party and will broadcast images of the guests captured on a hidden camera on tonight’s 11pm news. The angle of the story is something to the effect of “OMG! Are there really crazy sex parties in our quiet suburban neighborhoods!?” The [...] Continue Reading
Posted on 08 May 2012
Our parents and grandparents didn’t grow up learning about condoms in their high school and college health classes. After becoming single after loss of a spouse or divorce, many are hitting the dating pool for the first time in years. Contrary to popular belief, seniors have more interest in sex than we give them credit [...] Continue Reading
Posted on 07 May 2012
As many of you know, I am a tour guide for Weird Chicago Tours. I host every type of tour offered at Weird Chicago — Serial Killer, Weird & Haunted, Devil & The White City, True Crime & Gangster, etc. On this site I am most known for hosting Weird Chicago Red Light District Sex Tours. The Sex Tours have become so [...] Continue Reading
Posted on 01 May 2012
This Liquid Plumr Deep Impact TV ad is hilarious! I am also thankful to see the portrayal of a seemingly realistic woman who not only digs sex but isn’t afraid to get her freak on. Hurray for MFM threesomes with hot plumbers! Whew! *fans self* I think I need my drain snaked and my [...] Continue Reading
Posted on 01 May 2012
As if we need another reason to love Ellen. Ellen Reads from 50 Shades of Grey: Is it wrong that I can’t get the image of Ellen topping Barbara Walters out of my head? And that I find it kind of hot (someone photoshop me that!)? You did hear Barbara practically came out as [...] Continue Reading
Posted on 30 April 2012
This hilarious letter from a granny declaring to her college aged granddaughter “never do ANAL sex!” apparently wasn’t enough. Check out this latest video where 3 grandmothers watch the Kim Kardashian sex tape. They don’t dig the butt sex either! This had me rolling on the floor! Please, no one tell my grandma I like [...] Continue Reading
Posted on 20 April 2012
April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month. It’s a topic I am very passionate about. I devoted a lot of time this month to speaking and teaching about sexual consent. In my Sexual Consent Workshops we learn about consent in the context of various relationships like a hook-up, dating, marriage/domestic partnership, a swinging encounter or a [...] Continue Reading
Posted on 31 March 2012
My partner, Ken, and I have been conducting a bit of research on prostate milking. You know, intense hands on research strictly for SCIENCE! Below are a few instructional videos on prostate massage we found helpful. In the first, Jennah Adams shows you how to milk the prostate with a gloved finger. In the second [...] Continue Reading
Posted on 22 March 2012
This is a wonderful video on how to stimulate the g-spot I have been referring people to for years. You can find clips of the video on various sites but this link has the full 30 plus minute instructional video. Warning, although this is an instructional video, the clip is housed on a porn [...] Continue Reading
Posted on 29 February 2012
I’m happy to announce two of Chicago’s most informative and notorious sex educators are teaching a monthly adult sex-ed series at Taboo Tabou in Chicago! Of course, that’s me and partner, Ken Melvoin-Berg! ZAP! Electric Play is the first in the series. It will take place on Wednesday, March 7th from 7-9pm. We do expect [...] Continue Reading
Posted on 07 February 2012
I was recently asked to articulate my opinion on cosmetic vaginal surgery, mainly labiaplasty. I promptly re-watched the film linked above, The Perfect Vagina by Heather Leach and Lisa Rogers. I originally saw the film about a year ago. I couldn’t remember all the details from the movie but I did remember it left me confused [...] Continue Reading
Posted on 04 February 2012
I’m making my way to L.A.once again to help out partner, Ken Melvoin-Berg, teach ZAP! Electric Toy Play on Saturday, February 18th, 2012 at Stockroom University! Ken and I are both electricity nuts! From violet wands, to neon wands, to TENS units and more, we can’t get enough. During this class we’ll take a look [...] Continue Reading
Posted on 06 April 2011
Exciting news! Ken Melvoin-Berg and I have a jam packed weekend head of us. We’re going to sunny L.A.! What are we going to be doing there, you ask? Lots of sexy stuff! On Saturday April 9th , Ken and I are teaching a 3 hour extended Networking for Kinky People class at Stockroom [...] Continue Reading