
Sex Toy Review: California Exotic Novelties Lia Pleaser 1
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Before I used the Lia ® Pleasers™ Pleaser 1, I was intrigued by the vibration options. It offers 10 different settings/pulses. It’s also waterproof and made from silicone,…

Teaching an Old Dog New Tricks: 30 Days of Polyamory
Over the next month or so I’ll be focusing on subjects relating to non-monogamy. I’ll answer many questions for you— from defining lexicon (what’s Poly vs. Open Relationship vs. Mono/Poly, etc) to walking you through the how-to’s…

Why is Social Media So Important for Porn Stars?
**“When I look at most models, actresses, and singers in mainstream, I find that I know very little about the person. Many A-listers don’t have an account on Twitter or Facebook, and if they do it’s usually maintained by an assistant or…

Trading Power for Pleasure? Popular Blogs Giving Horrible Advice to Kink Curious Women
Everyone’s jumping on the BSDM/50 Shades bandwagon. Every other internet news source claims to have the secret to creating the perfect 50 Shades experience but few provide accuracy or substance. CaféMom/The Stir’s “Women Who Want…

I Don’t Like You Much, Christian Grey
A few days ago, one of the local radio news stations interviewed us for their “50 shades of Grey” series. I was interested in talking about the book. One way or the other it’s an important book right now. It’s on paper, it’s got a cardboard cover, it’s written with an incessant and continual internal dialogue that makes you want to stick needles in your face, it’s on the bestseller list.

You want more S&M classes? Get ready for BDSM 201: Dungeons for Beginners!
Our BDSM 101: 50 Shades of Taboo class last night at Taboo Tabou was AWESOME! Thanks to everyone who came out! The turnout was wonderful and I’m already receiving all sorts of private notes from attendees thanking Ken and I for teaching…

Stop Hating on 50 Shades of Grey!
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My fellow literary snobs, sex educators, kinksters & sex positive community members may be shocked to hear me say this: STOP HATING ON 50 SHADES OF GREY!
Yep,…

10 Things to Read After 50 Shades of Grey
Maybe you really enjoyed 50 Shades and you want to know what you could read next. Here are some options. All of these are written to subjectify the female player- to give her life and let her fantasy really guide the book. Even if she is the submissive- the object of affection and intrigue, use and abuse, she is the window through which the story is told.

BDSM Without Sex?
When we hear words like fetish, kink, BDSM or S&M we immediately think sex.
BDSM is an acronym many in the mainstream consider synonymous with S&M. Technically it stands for bondage & discipline (BD), dominance & submission (DS) and sadism & masochism (SM). In other words-- whatever it is you like that’s kinky, whether on the giving or receiving end, is included in the all encompassing label of BDSM.

50 Shades of Grey Gift Set Giveaway!
I’m giving away a 50 Shades of Grey gift package!
Are you dying to read the book that has everyone talking? It seems everyone has an opinion about it— now you can judge for yourself!
This gift package is valued at over $65 and…

The Journey of Self Love - My Masturbation Story
May is International Masturbation Month! This article was written by Sunny Megatron for and originally appearing in Lidia-Anain's Sex Love Joy. During the entire month of May 2012, Sex Love Joy will feature a collection of masturbation…

Detroit’s Local 4 News Filming of BDSM Club Irresponsible Journalism
I just learned Detroit's Local 4 News planted someone at a local BDSM Dungeon party and will broadcast images of the guests captured on a hidden camera on tonight's 11pm news. The angle of the story is something to the effect of "OMG! Are…

Talk about Birds, Bees and Disease with your Grandparents!
Our parents and grandparents didn’t grow up learning about condoms in their high school and college health classes. After becoming single after loss of a spouse or divorce, many are hitting the dating pool for the first time in years. Contrary…

Vote for Weird Chicago Tours - Best of 2012 + Film Shoot Update
As many of you know, I am a tour guide for Weird Chicago Tours. I host every type of tour offered at Weird Chicago -- Serial Killer, Weird & Haunted, Devil & The White City, True Crime & Gangster, etc. On this site I am…

Nothing Like a Soccer Mom DP'ed on National TV!
This Liquid Plumr Deep Impact TV ad is hilarious! I am also thankful to see the portrayal of a seemingly realistic woman who not only digs sex but isn’t afraid to get her freak on. Hurray for MFM threesomes with hot plumbers!
Whew!…

Ellen's 50 Shades of Grey + Bonus S&M Barbara Walters
As if we need another reason to love Ellen. Ellen Reads from 50 Shades of Grey:
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Is it wrong that I can't get the image of Ellen topping Barbara Walters out of my head? And that…

Consensus: Grannies Hate Anal Sex!
This hilarious letter from a granny declaring to her college aged granddaughter “never do ANAL sex!” apparently wasn’t enough.
Check out this latest video where 3 grandmothers watch the Kim Kardashian sex tape. They don’t dig the…

Diary of a Sex Clown: Life Lessons from a Clown Fetishist
Upon meeting a prospective partner in a coffee shop or at the corner bar, they often become “Coffee Shop Hottie” or “Corner Bar Dude” in casual conversation amongst friends. When I first met the love of my life, my best friend and I secretly referred to him as “The Sex Clown.”

Navigating Consent & Setting Sexual Boundaries: Yes/No/Maybe List
April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month. It’s a topic I am very passionate about.
I devoted a lot of time this month to speaking and teaching about sexual consent. In my Sexual Consent Workshops we learn about consent in the context…

How to Give Prostate Massage: Instructional Videos
Below are a few instructional videos on prostate massage we found helpful. In the first, Jennah Adams shows you how to milk the prostate with a gloved finger. In the second Brianna Beach demos with an Aneros Prostate Massager. The bottom video is the very first video I ever watched about prostate massage. I really like this last video because it shows the actual massage in more detail. Also, they are the cutest couple ever!

Choosing Your First Sex Toy
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There are a few things you may want to ask yourself before you buy your very first sex toy. For starters, you need to determine if you prefer vaginal penetration or clitoral stimulation. Being…

G-spot Stimulation Instructional Video
This is a wonderful video on how to stimulate the g-spot I have been referring people to for years. You can find clips of the video on various sites but this link has the full 30 plus minute instructional video. Warning, although this is an instructional video, the clip is housed on a porn site and is graphic in nature! It is certainly NOT suitable for work!

Hitachi Magic Wand vs. Wahl Massager + Vibrator Giveaway!
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Watch my video to find out which massager I like better and why. And don’t forget to enter to win a Wahl Electric Massager of your very own! Use the widget down…

We're Teaching Sex Ed Classes at Taboo Tabou!
I’m happy to announce two of Chicago’s most informative and notorious sex educators are teaching a monthly adult sex-ed series at Taboo Tabou in Chicago! Of course, that’s me and partner, Ken Melvoin-Berg!
ZAP! Electric Play is…
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