Tantric sex for couplesA passionate sex life keeps us happy, healthy and connected to a partner. However, for many, satisfaction in the bedroom doesn’t come naturally. Many people struggle to achieve orgasm due to negative sexual emotions, low self-confidence, premature ejaculation, stress, poor diet, or intimacy issues.

Thankfully, help is at hand. If you’re struggling to achieve orgasm, tantric sex may be the solution you’ve been searching for. Tantra is an ancient practice which is becoming more popular in the modern world.

What is tantric sex?

Tantra originated thousands of years ago in India. Its meaning incorporates the weaving and expansion of intense sexual energy. While reaching orgasm is a part of tantra, its not its sole purpose. Tantra is much more about creating a deeper connection and a path to enlightenment. Reaching a higher state of bliss through physical connection is the journey you take when practising tantra.

How does tantric sex improve orgasm?

Many people perform tantra for better sex. Tantric sex and massage give stronger orgasms due to the moving flow of sexual energy throughout the body. In tantra, male and female energy unite to take you to the highest point of enlightenment.

Instead of overly focusing on the goal of orgasm, tantra helps you to ride the wave of arousal for hours of pleasure.

How to perform tantric sex

Start with tantric massage

Tantric massage enhances intimacy and creates an emotional connection between you and your partner. Tantric massage is performed in an unwinding and uplifting atmosphere. You can start with a saucy shower, before moving to an area filled with candles, music and scented oil.

Before you begin a massage, its best to shake the body to eliminate any blockages, relieve tension, and open up the body to physical and spiritual well-being.

Tantric massage starts with soft, lingering touches as you gently spread oil over your partner’s body. Hand movements should be teasing and playful, focusing on the top of the body before working towards the genital area.

Incorporate breathing techniques

Tantra incorporates meditation techniques, including breathing. One of the most effective ways to learn to control your breathing is by working with your partner. When they inhale, you exhale and vice versa.

Alternatively, try this tantra exercise. Sit on your partner’s lap and imagine you can see your breath moving in and out of your body. Start to rock forwards and backwards, breathing in as you move forwards and exhaling as you rock backwards.

Gaze into each others eyes

Gazing into your partner’s eyes during tantra gives you an amazing emotional connection. You can look into each other’s eyes while completing breathing techniques – giving you an electric feeling!

Eye-gazing enhances feelings of intimacy and closeness with your partner. If your love life is struggling, try gazing into your partner’s eyes during tantra to enjoy the physical and emotional connection. While you may feel uncomfortable at first, maintaining eye contact during tantra will help you to enjoy your physical embrace.

Light, slow touches

Touch brings an incredible amount of pleasure. Light, slow touches throughout tantric sex help to build sexual energy and keep it flowing throughout the body. Whether you’re giving a tantric massage or lingering kisses, the steamy sensation of body to body contact heightens arousal.

If you’re new to tantra and feeling slightly uncomfortable at first, you can start with simple hand or foot massages. Using warm oil helps you to unwind. With practice, you can begin to massage different areas of the body, including the genitals.

Form a spiritual connection

Tantra is often used as a holistic therapy, with the spiritual connection leading to an explosive happy ending. Forming a spiritual connection with yourself and your partner nurtures your relationship, leading to improved sex and longer lovemaking.

As well as exploring your sexual side, you’ll learn to be more confident and self-assured in the bedroom. Reaching a higher sense of self via tantra helps you to learn new ways of satisfying yourself and your partner. You’ll know exactly what they like and be able to use your new found skills to pleasure them for an intense orgasm.

See a tantric expert

Using an expertly trained masseuse can provide multiple orgasms. A highly skilled massage expert knows the correct techniques to help you achieve an explosive release of sexual energy. If you’re looking for a massage girl who can fulfil your needs and give you the mind-blowing happy ending you deserve, find a reputable tantric massage agency in your area.

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About the Author:

Erica Suarez-Hillingdon is an expert in the ancient art of tantra and tantric massage. She is also the Editor of Karma Tantric – the most exclusive tantric massage in London. Karma Tantric provides a variety of tantric massage experiences including classic tantra, nuru massage, sexy couples massage experiences and more!

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