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Our G-spot Live Demo Class

In 99.9% of our sex classes we don't do x-rated live demos. There are a few reasons for this. First of all, many of the sexual techniques we teach take repeated practice to master. I often say mastering the g-spot, for example, isn't…
BDSM for Beginners
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BDSM for Beginners Video Series

This four part BDSM 101 video series is designed to get you up to speed on kink/BDSM so you can start constructing your first scene. We cover: BDSM defined (good chance it's not exactly what you've been lead to believe by the media!) How…
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I’m Having a Ball with my Scandal Ball Gag!

Why Reach for a Ball Gag? People like using ball gags for different reasons. For those who enjoy being submissive in the bedroom, feeling helpless can be a huge turn on. When we give up control and place it in the hands of our partner, the…
How to use a butt plug
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Everything you Need to Know About Butt Plugs

This three part video series is a quick and thorough butt plug primer. In it I cover: What is a butt plug Types of butt plugs How to select the right butt plug for you Why do butt plugs feel good? How are butt plugs be used for…
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The Womanizer Might Be Powered by Magic

This is the #1 selling sex toy in Europe for a couple of reasons. One, because it does some REALLY interesting and magical things to clitorses and secondly, that’s where it originated-- Germany to be exact.
Lelo Hugo Review
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Lelo HUGO Prostate Vibrator Review

Ken and I reviewed the Lelo HUGO prostate vibrator. I’m just going to cut to the chase-- LOVE! Love, love, love, love, love! HUGO is silicone, has 2 motors, is waterproof, rechargeable, and is remote controlled. The things that really sold us on this prostate vibrator was the power and functioning plus the SenseMotion remote control feature.
Je Joue Ooh Collection
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Je Joue Ooh Review

I'm lukewarm about the Je Joue Ooh modular sex toy system. The best piece blew me away but wasn't meant to stand alone. The worst had me mumbling "WTF?!"
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Is Masturbation Harmful?

I received a question from a reader earlier today. He asked: "Hi Sunny, I was wondering if masturbation is harmful? I do it every single day, sometimes twice. A lot of times I feel tired afterward too, is this bad? Am I masturbating too much? "
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A Tour of the Most Magical Place on Earth: Hustler Hollywood

I took tour of the amazing Hustler Hollywood flagship store! Perhaps you've never been to a sex store at all or maybe just not to one of such epic proportions? This place is as big as a grocery store and even has a coffee shop inside!
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Genital Anatomy for Sexual Pleasure

Most of us think we know quite a bit about our genitals but do we really? Familiarizing ourselves with the internal structures of what's in our pants is the first step in learning to give and receive more satisfying pleasure.
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Verspanken Male Masturbator Review

The men said the Verspanken Water Wieners resembled everything from Janice from the Muppet's lips to bumpy pickles and everything in between. But did it get the job done and get it done well?
Best Travel Vibrators
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Have Vibrator Will Travel: The Best Travel Toys & Helpful Tips

Motorized devices can turn on unexpectedly and some may be classified as prohibited items by the TSA. Even if your secret items don’t violate any travel rules, luggage still sometimes gets searched. Having phallic shaped objects yanked from your bags for all to see can be downright embarrassing.
Lelo INA Wave Sunny Megaatron
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Lelo INA Wave Vibrator Review

Even though the INA Wave didn’t fit me the way it's “supposed to,” I find the work-around MUCH more pleasurable. It induces a feeling like no other clit vibe I’ve tried (and that’s a HUGE number) and the orgasms it gives me are very powerful. TOTAL WIN. The INA Wave and I will live happily ever after together afterall!
Jimmy Jane Form 2 Round Table review
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Jimmyjane Form 2 Group Review

I like round table style reviews because every body is different. Not everyone experiences things the same or uses toys in the same way. Listen to what the four of us had to say about the Form 2
Lady Cheeky Sunny Megatron
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Glass Dildo Review with Lady Cheeky

Back in 2013 I was honored to "pop" Lady Cheeky's (a.k.a Elle Chase) "glass cherry," so to speak. We both used Doc Johnson's Reflections Serenity and Reflections Cool to mixed results.
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Motorhead Vibrator Review: Ace of Spades Bullet

It turns out this little Motӧrhead vibrator had a number of features in its basic design my body finds necessary for grade A orgasms. First, the power-- that’s a no brainer for me. My clit only likes the strongest vibrators and this little guy surprisingly has it. They call Motӧrhead “the loudest band on earth” could this the “the most powerful bullet on earth?” Maybe.
Anal 101
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Booty Call Booty Vibro Kit Review

This is a wonderful, inexpensive, versatile anal kit. It can be used as a vibrating toy, a non-vibrating toy, or an extended wear plug. It’s perfect for either new or experienced butt-players. Better yet, it’s made from non-porous, seamless silicone which is a must, especially for an anal toy.
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Power Play Flickering Tongue Review

It’s easy to hold, small enough to use during partnered sex, and exceptionally inexpensive, averaging around $15 online. Not bad for a powerful, silicone toy! If you like buzzy, “pinpointy” power that won’t break the bank, look into adding the Powerplay Flickering Tongue to your collection.
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An Open Letter to Sex Educators & BDSM Community Re: 50 Shades of Grey

Love it or hate it, THIS article about rescued marriages is what Fifty Shades of Grey is doing for a lot of people-- and that's a wonderful thing. I get letters from folks all the time about saved marriages and renewed relationships. As educators and BDSM community members, poo-pooing the book (as many in this article quoting 50 sex educators/fetishists on 50 shades do) does nothing but shame people's very real, valid, life changing experiences. And what we want most is for them to enter the world of BDSM in a safe, sane, and consensual manner (or in a RACK-y way if that's more their thing ;) ) and learn to differentiate between fantasy inspiration and healthy real-life kink.
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50 Shades Movie Recommendation: Secretary  

If you're a fan of Fifty Shades of Grey but haven't seen Secretary, SEE SECRETARY! It's a much more realistic representation of BDSM, it's suuuuper hot, and the chemistry between the James Spader and Maggie Gyllenaal is amazing!
6 ways to recharge your sex life
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Sex with Sunny Megatron #Recharge Discussion Video

Each week following the airing of a new Sex with Sunny Megatron episode I post follow-up videos on my youtube page. The discussion video for episode 1 is up and embedded below. The theme of episode 1 is #Recharge and in the video I talk a little about the episode and suggest additional ways you can recharge your sex life.
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SEX with Sunny Megatron TV Show on Showtime!

If you haven’t heard the buzz, my husband, Ken and I have been busy all summer filming a TV show. Yep! I’m going to be on the tee-vee! Ken is the consulting producer and I am the host and co-executive producer of a new show about sex on Showtime called SEX with Sunny Megatron.
BDSM Web Series
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Kinky Korner Web Series

Did you know that as a CalExotics Expert Sexpert I make kinky educational and product videos? My web Series is called Kinky Korner. So far I have nearly 30 videos in this series in which I teach you kink basics and give you a peek at some of my favorite sexytime products.
Jopen L5 Review
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Flower Power: Jopen Lust L5 Review

Let me tell you, this cute little flower unleashes some serious power! <-- it also inspires me to rhyme like a pro, ha! Also, in this video I tell you a little bit about my show. Yes, SHOW! Like on TV, this fall!
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Our Blow Job Class on Comedy Central’s @Midnight!

Late last night Ken and I were bombarded with messages and tweets: “You’re on Comedy Central!” “OMG! Your Blow Job Class is on @Midnight with Chris Hardwick!” What?! Yep!
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Top 10 CalExotics Fetish Toys of 2013

Recently I was a guest on the SiriusXM radio show, On Air with Club CalExotics hosted by Sheena Metal. Three words: SO MUCH FUN! Sheena and I talked about exploring kink and took questions from callers. We finished up the episode with my list of Top 10 Fetish Toys of 2013. These are must-have, classic items everyone should have in their naughty toolbox.
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Sunny's Favorite Naughty Things of 2013

Just like Oprah has a list of her favorite products of the year, I have mine too. Only mine are a lot dirtier. Here are my favorite naughty things of 2013 . . .
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Outside the Box: Man on the Street Las Vegas

When we were in Vegas covering the AVN Expo, the Outside the Box crew and I took it to the streets. Hilarity ensues when you talk to strangers about their sex lives. We also touched on bestialty (I think? I didn't imagine that, right!? that *is* what we were talking about??). I'll let you judge for yourself!
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Lesbians React to Lesbian Porn

If there is one wish I had for the world it would be MAKE MORE AUTHENTIC PORN! Okay, maybe that wouldn't be my first wish. First I'd wish for things like world peace and unlimited wishes.
Gloria Steinem
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If Men Could Menstruate

Reading this essay was the very first time I felt validated in my suspicions that the world wasn’t balanced. Although I was told I could do anything, be anything, and my value was equal to that of a man, I knew deep down that really wasn’t true. What I was told and my day-to-day experiences were two very different things.
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The Truth about Silicone Lube

I consume sex ed related material on the web at an alarming rate. I always have my nose in a blog or video. The misconceptions I come across about silicone personal lubricants are plenty.
Adonis Conqueror Review
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Adonis Conqueror Vibrator Review

ADONIS CONQUEROR! That sounds like something that would leave a wake of exhausted and happily pleasured genitals in its path. Since it takes a lot to satisfy me and I’m a bit of a size queen, the mental image I had of the Adonis Conqueror resembled a jack hammer in the shape and size of a fist. And, of course, it was made out of sparkling solid gold. RAWR!
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Black Label Anniversary Edition Jack Rabbit Vibrator Give-Away

I’m super excited! Over the last couple of months I revamped my website (what do you think?), scheduled a ton of awesome great classes, been traveling and filming with Ken for an upcoming TV show AND I’ll have even MORE awesome stuff to announce soon. I’m feeling so great, I want to celebrate! Do you know how? By giving away one of my most favorite sex toys EVER!!!
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Dr. Laura Berman Intimate Basics Phoebe Vibrator Review

The Dr. Laura Berman Intimate Basics Phoebe vibrator by CalExotics is a clitoral stimulator. It certainly has its benefits and drawbacks. Check out the video below where I discuss them in detail.
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How to Handle Gagging During a Blow Job

If you’ve been on the giving end of a blow job, you’ve likely encountered the dreaded gag reflex. It can sneak up on you when you least expect it.
Jack Rabbit Review Sunny & Ken
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CalExotics Triple Motor Silicone Jack Rabbit Review

This month CalExotics sent me the Triple Motor Silicone Jack Rabbit to review. I was so happy when I opened the box! This was a no brainer! I absolutely LOVE this version of rabbit vibrator. Just a few months back I reviewed the Rechargeable Black Label Anniversary Edition Rabbit which has the same features as the triple motor version. The only difference between the two is one is rechargeable and the other takes batteries.
Prostate Massage
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Piss: A Short Film

Wow, this is a great short film! It also has so many layers. On the surface it’s got a very indie/dark comedy feel. It also brings to light what many people exploring BDSM wrestle with: How to reconcile kink with your feminist beliefs. It also touches on the importance of safewords and the sometimes murky waters of consent.
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Rechargeable Black Label Jack Rabbit Review: I'm in Vibrator Heaven!

I hit the jackpot! I won the orgasm lottery! I have not been able to stop masturbating since California Exotics sent me the just released 30th Anniversary Black Label Rechargeable Jack Rabbit to review. It’s been about a month. I’m weak. Send food. And more lube!
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Happy Bisexuality Day! Why is it so Hard Being Bi?

September 23rd, 2012 is Bisexuality Day. We need more visible bisexual role-models and supporters so I’m doing my part! I dig everyone-- dudes, chicks, people whose plumbing traditionally matches their gender, those who don’t match…
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Sex On Prime Time TV - Red Light District Tour on Travel Channel

The Travel Channel segment we filmed in May aired last night. Woo-hoo! It’s for a show called Extreme Tours and features some of the stops I visit hosting a Weird Chicago Tours Red Light District Tour. Through the months of editing I kept wondering how they were going to dumb-down the sex tour for G-rated television. On the tour we don’t hold back. How was I going to do a sex toy demonstration, visit a BDSM Dungeon or do and say even a fraction of the stuff that normally occurs?
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Work It! Sunny Megatron: Sex Educator, Weird Tour Guide, Kinky Blogger!

What do you do, in your own words, and how long have you been doing it? I do a whole bunch of odd and interesting things. Strangely, all of my work centers around two of life’s most intriguing, misunderstood and mysterious taboos: sex and death.
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Jimmyjane Form 2 Review: I'm in Love!

Very rarely do I fall in love with a vibrator.  I’m picky, tough to arouse and since I’ve sampled some of the best toys out there, I have very high standards.  The Jimmyjane Form 2 is one of my favorite vibrators of all time (the…
Prostate Massage
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Ken & Sunny Milk a Prostate!

  In the video above Ken and I discuss some of the techniques from these prostate milking instructional videos we tried.  They were a great success!  We encountered some things we didn’t expect (most of them good!) and prostate…
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Sex Toy Review: California Exotic Novelties Lia Pleaser 1

  Before I used the Lia ® Pleasers™ Pleaser 1, I was intrigued by the vibration options.  It offers 10 different settings/pulses.  It’s also waterproof and made from silicone, which are two big pluses in my book. When I…
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Nothing Like a Soccer Mom DP'ed on National TV!

  This Liquid Plumr Deep Impact TV ad is hilarious!  I am also thankful to see the portrayal of a seemingly realistic woman who not only digs sex but isn’t afraid to get her freak on.  Hurray for MFM threesomes with hot plumbers! Whew!…
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Ellen's 50 Shades of Grey + Bonus S&M Barbara Walters

  As if we need another reason to love Ellen.  Ellen Reads from 50 Shades of Grey: http://youtu.be/on3JCwnwHbU     Is it wrong that I can't get the image of Ellen topping Barbara Walters out of my head? And that…
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Consensus: Grannies Hate Anal Sex!

This hilarious letter from a granny declaring to her college aged granddaughter “never do ANAL sex!” apparently wasn’t enough. Check out this latest video where 3 grandmothers watch the Kim Kardashian sex tape.  They don’t dig the…
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How to Give Prostate Massage: Instructional Videos

Below are a few instructional videos on prostate massage we found helpful. In the first, Jennah Adams shows you how to milk the prostate with a gloved finger. In the second Brianna Beach demos with an Aneros Prostate Massager. The bottom video is the very first video I ever watched about prostate massage. I really like this last video because it shows the actual massage in more detail. Also, they are the cutest couple ever!
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Choosing Your First Sex Toy

  http://youtu.be/zjBlgBVDTk4   There are a few things you may want to ask yourself before you buy your very first sex toy. For starters, you need to determine if you prefer vaginal penetration or clitoral stimulation. Being…
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G-spot Stimulation Instructional Video

This is a wonderful video on how to stimulate the g-spot I have been referring people to for years. You can find clips of the video on various sites but this link has the full 30 plus minute instructional video. Warning, although this is an instructional video, the clip is housed on a porn site and is graphic in nature! It is certainly NOT suitable for work!
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Hitachi Magic Wand vs. Wahl Massager + Vibrator Giveaway!

  Watch my video to find out which massager I like better and why.  And don’t forget to enter to win a Wahl Electric Massager of your very own!  Use the widget down below to enter!  You can even submit multiple entries on a…
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My Perfect Vagina is 8 Miles Wide

    I was recently asked to articulate my opinion on cosmetic vaginal surgery, mainly labiaplasty. I promptly re-watched the film linked above, The Perfect Vagina by Heather Leach and Lisa Rogers.  I originally saw the…
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Stand Up - To Homophobic Bullying

  This PSA from Stand up! is of the best anti-bullying videos I've seen.  It made me cry, damn it! Really, everyone NEEDS to see this.   Show your friends, show your kids.  We need this happening in every school.  …
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My Penis and Everyone Else's

I love Lawrence Barraclough and I don’t care if he has a teeny weenie peener.  Besides, size doesn’t matter.  Well, yes it does.  Well . . . no, it doesn’t really.  Okay, maybe a little bit.  No?  What’s the right answer!? This…
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I Want an Electric Blue, Rainbow Vagina

So, did they mean this to be funny? Or are they expecting me to put on my Birkenstocks, stop shaving my armpits and tell everyone how beautiful and empowering this is? Because as much as I love to celebrate the beauty of female genitalia,…
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Margaret Cho: My Puss

Oh Margaret, I love you. Can I have your babies? My puss, churns out cute Cho babies Your puss, foaming with rabies My puss, digs Mar-gar-et Your puss, will get put down at the vet Alright, I’ll stop. http://www.yout…
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Best. It Gets Better Video. Ever.

Comedian and improv performer Rebecca Drysdale hit a home run with her video for Dan Savage’s It Gets Better Project. Best. ‘It Gets Better’ video. Ever. If you are a parent to a teen, you should have your child watch this. …
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Volkswagen Commercial: The Force

Check out Volkswagen's new spot set to air in the Super Bowl this Sunday. Love it! Now, if they could only invent a new hybrid that would run on The Force . . . . http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R55e-uHQna0